Review of Rabbit Hole (2010) by Vivian M — 30 Apr 2011

Rabbit Hole is not a pretty movie, nor is it a fun one. I squirmed. I felt unspeakably awkward and embarrassed. I looked away from the screen in a few scenes, not because something violent was happening but because I can only observe so much human pain before I have to take a small breather.

These qualities are reason to see it, in case we're not clear on that. I don't ever remember a portrayal of grief this honest and raw, this willing to overwhelm me with uncomfortable dismay. It's so real.

It's a film without a stated motive, other than holding a mirror up to the human condition and saying "this is how it would happen." The dialogue is vague and evasive. There's pain and hidden thoughts beneath every line, inviting us to determine what the characters are thinking through what they aren't saying.

It's a film with no easy answers. There are small, tragic reminders around every corner, waiting to serve as an impetus for another bout of misery and regret. It's brilliantly written and acted.

If you are having second thoughts about this one, watch it because I promise it's powerful. And also because you owe it to yourself to.