Review of Sick: The Life and Death of Bob Flanagan, Supermasochist (1997) by Conor M — 18 Feb 2010

Performance artist/ S&M enthusiast Bob Flanagan isn't exactly the first person you'd think about when looking for an inspirational subject, but in his own twisted way, as chronicled in the fascinating documentary SICK, he is.

Suffering from cystic fibrosis, a disease which causes excess mucus buildup in the lungs and usually kills those afflicted in childhood, Flanagan nevertheless survived into his 40s, though he was in near constant pain.

To combat this pain, and to regain a measure of control over his failing body, Flanagan participated in some extreme acts of sadomasochism. Documentarian Kirby Dick, who collaborated closely with Flanagan and his longtime dominatrix/life partner Sheree Rose, doesn't shy away from the cringe-worthy stuff, which includes some graphic scenes I won't go into, but below it all we get a surprisingly touching story about a man fighting back against his fate, knowing full well he can't win.

His relationship with Rose, however bizarre it may seem, was based on love, as evidenced by her caring for him in his final hours. The end, which shows Flanagan's final stand in harrowing detail, is heartbreaking, as are the home videos shot by Rose which show Flanagan as vulnerable and depressed about his situation, even when his persona is built on his dark sense of humor about his fate, and the irony of his actions.

The movie would probably be unbearable if it weren't for the fact that Flanagan is a fascinating, compelling protagonist, and even if you don't totally understand his lifestyle, you can't help but root for him.