Review of Old Fashioned (2014) by Bernardo D — 17 Jun 2015

The movie, Old Fashioned, was refreshing to watch. I pray that each of our 4 children find this type of wholesome romance as they come of age.

It is sad that this type of behavior is deemed 'old fashioned' in this day and age. As taken from the movie, "When did treating women with respect become the joke?" My concern is that we have become so desensitized by what we are seeing and hearing in the world around us, that wholesome, romantic love is perceived as dull and boring. When in fact, it is beautiful and fulfilling.

I am thankful that this was a movie that I could watch with my teenage daughter. I appreciate that this type of wholesome romance had her so captivated that she was upset when the movie ended because she was left wanting more.

Old Fashioned is good for singles as well as those who are married. It reminds us that relationships are not easy. When my husband and I got married we took vows before God and our family and friends to take one another to have and to hold from that day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; until death do us part. 19 years of marriage have proved that it is not always easy, but it IS worth it.

In addition to the overarching theme in the movie, there are multiple underlying themes: The power of the Holy Spirit to change hearts and lives. The importance of standing for one's convictions even when it is not the easy choice. The impact that living a faithful and consistent life can have on those around you. The value of having a spiritual parent type figure (in this case an aunt) that you can go to, who will give it to you straight, not sugar coated. The effect of expressing a genuine care for others, desiring to hear their story. Amidst all of this, the writer kept it real. Clay seemed to struggle with understanding that he had been washed whiter than snow (Psalm 51:7), which in our finite human minds, it is difficult to comprehend that we can be separated from our sins as far as the east is from the west (Psalm 103:12). Clay and Amber were not perfect, they were human. Clay had unsaved friends. He was mocked for his beliefs. He was viewed as odd. He ruffled feathers and got in a scuffle over it. Clay and Amber questioned one another, got upset, and experienced temptations.

I commend the writer of Old Fashioned and applaud those who took the step of faith in getting this movie to the big screen. I look forward to what they may produce in the future. May they be blessed in their endeavors.